Comments on: What Divorce Taught Me About Business And What You Can Learn From It http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=divorce-taught-copywriting Making great conversions and even greater conversions Tue, 03 May 2011 14:42:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: MicheleTune (Michele L. Tune) http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-215 MicheleTune (Michele L. Tune) Mon, 02 Feb 2009 01:59:02 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-215 <a rel="nofollow" href="http://twitter.com/angie1234p">@angie1234p</a> You're most welcome. Great post! http://tinyurl.com/c9zpme @angie1234p You’re most welcome. Great post! http://tinyurl.com/c9zpme

]]> By: Michele http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-217 Michele Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:33:56 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-217 Yep, even today that very same thing happens to me. "Flashbacks", I call them.... The physical abuse heals so much easier. Verbal abuse can haunt you for a lifetime. *smiles and hugs* Michele <abbr><em>Michele’s last blog post..<a href="http://writingthecyberhighway.com/2009/01/dont-let-your-past-keep-you-from-your-future/" rel="nofollow">Don’t Let Your Past Keep You from Your Future</a></abbr></em> Yep, even today that very same thing happens to me. “Flashbacks”, I call them…. The physical abuse heals so much easier. Verbal abuse can haunt you for a lifetime.

*smiles and hugs*
Michele

Michele’s last blog post..Don’t Let Your Past Keep You from Your Future

]]> By: Angie H http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-216 Angie H Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:21:05 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-216 Yes Michele, what you mention are perhaps some of the biggest lessons of all. While mine never physically hit me, I used to wish he did because it would have been easier for others to understand. In fact, many who should have still don't understand what happened. Funny, but sometimes, someone says something in a particular way, or I see something, and I can hear some of those words and conversations like it happened yesterday. A good reminder of how far I've come in the last 10 years. *smiles and hugs* Angie Yes Michele, what you mention are perhaps some of the biggest lessons of all.

While mine never physically hit me, I used to wish he did because it would have been easier for others to understand. In fact, many who should have still don’t understand what happened. Funny, but sometimes, someone says something in a particular way, or I see something, and I can hear some of those words and conversations like it happened yesterday.

A good reminder of how far I’ve come in the last 10 years. *smiles and hugs*

Angie

]]> By: Michele http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-214 Michele Sun, 01 Feb 2009 19:49:28 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-214 You know, I'm a survivor of domestic violence. I've shared that tidbit throughout some of my published work and on my blogs and sometimes even in conversation that happens on various social media sites. They say <i>what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger</i>, and I believe that with all my heart. You may not even realize you're stronger for having gone through it, but you are. It's never fun when something ends - even if it wasn't a good thing - because it's something we're used to and it's "comfy" for us to stay there. Surviving domestic violence not only made me realize that I can make it through most anything, but it made me realize that I had been given a special opportunity to combine my tragic past with my God-given talent with words and share my heart to inspire and encourage others. I would have never been a freelance writer had I stayed in that relationship. Imagine that! I'm judged for it over and over. I'm told I must have done <i>something</i> to make someone <b>so</b> angry they'd want to hit me, but those are folks who just don't understand - or care about - the power of abuse (verbal and physical). Anyway, enough rambling... This post really resonates with me, and I thank you for sharing it with us and letting us see what you've learned. I agree, I'll take the hard road and glean from the journey! ;-) *smiles and hugs* Michele You know, I’m a survivor of domestic violence. I’ve shared that tidbit throughout some of my published work and on my blogs and sometimes even in conversation that happens on various social media sites. They say what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger, and I believe that with all my heart. You may not even realize you’re stronger for having gone through it, but you are. It’s never fun when something ends – even if it wasn’t a good thing – because it’s something we’re used to and it’s “comfy” for us to stay there.

Surviving domestic violence not only made me realize that I can make it through most anything, but it made me realize that I had been given a special opportunity to combine my tragic past with my God-given talent with words and share my heart to inspire and encourage others. I would have never been a freelance writer had I stayed in that relationship. Imagine that! I’m judged for it over and over. I’m told I must have done something to make someone so angry they’d want to hit me, but those are folks who just don’t understand – or care about – the power of abuse (verbal and physical).

Anyway, enough rambling… This post really resonates with me, and I thank you for sharing it with us and letting us see what you’ve learned. I agree, I’ll take the hard road and glean from the journey! ;-)

*smiles and hugs*
Michele

]]> By: Angie H http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-212 Angie H Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:06:12 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-212 It weighed on me for years after (I have been divorced since Dec 02. We split in Oct of 01.) It was a long journey and one that is different for everyone of us. Even though I joke around a bit about it, we both made mistakes. Some bigger than others. Granted, being civil still takes effort, but I value what I've learned and wouldn't be who I am without them. I look forward to reading your response when you're ready. If you would like, I'll link to it here. Angie It weighed on me for years after (I have been divorced since Dec 02. We split in Oct of 01.) It was a long journey and one that is different for everyone of us. Even though I joke around a bit about it, we both made mistakes. Some bigger than others. Granted, being civil still takes effort, but I value what I’ve learned and wouldn’t be who I am without them.

I look forward to reading your response when you’re ready. If you would like, I’ll link to it here.

Angie

]]> By: Angie H http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-211 Angie H Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:01:02 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-211 Yes! And very true of business as well! The first time around, I left with $40K worth of creditors on my back. The tears, sweat, and agony that resulted taught me a lesson I don't care to learn a second time. Hubby and I now live with the one income rule, and it feels a whole lot better. Thanks for adding that very valuable point! Angie Yes! And very true of business as well! The first time around, I left with $40K worth of creditors on my back. The tears, sweat, and agony that resulted taught me a lesson I don’t care to learn a second time.

Hubby and I now live with the one income rule, and it feels a whole lot better. Thanks for adding that very valuable point!

Angie

]]> By: Angie H http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-210 Angie H Sun, 01 Feb 2009 17:58:27 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-210 Hi Jo Anne, Yes, this could easily become a very lengthy list, but felt it was best to break it up a bit. I'm a firm believer in the ideal that mistakes are only mistakes if we fail to learn from them. This is only one of the many things I've trudged through lately, and it has further brought me an...I don't know how to say it...self-awareness? If you can add to it, write a post and I'll attach a link to this one. I would love to read your post! I think it would be something we might all find beneficial. Angie Hi Jo Anne,

Yes, this could easily become a very lengthy list, but felt it was best to break it up a bit. I’m a firm believer in the ideal that mistakes are only mistakes if we fail to learn from them. This is only one of the many things I’ve trudged through lately, and it has further brought me an…I don’t know how to say it…self-awareness?

If you can add to it, write a post and I’ll attach a link to this one. I would love to read your post! I think it would be something we might all find beneficial.

Angie

]]> By: Christine OKelly http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-209 Christine OKelly Sun, 01 Feb 2009 16:37:21 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-209 Awesome heartfelt post! One lesson I learned... when married, never allow your lifestyle (bills, mortgage, etc) to become higher than you can take care of on your own. :D <abbr><em>Christine OKelly’s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SelfMadeChick/~3/515933622/" rel="nofollow">Turning Sh** Into Sugar</a></abbr></em> Awesome heartfelt post! One lesson I learned… when married, never allow your lifestyle (bills, mortgage, etc) to become higher than you can take care of on your own. :D

Christine OKelly’s last blog post..Turning Sh** Into Sugar

]]> By: Jo-Anne Vandermeulen http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-208 Jo-Anne Vandermeulen Sun, 01 Feb 2009 16:17:45 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-208 Hi Angie; I could have easily written this post...probably added to it. Yes, I can relate, but we are the stronger ones in the end. Jo-Anne <abbr><em>Jo-Anne Vandermeulen’s last blog post..<a href="http://gr5mom2.wordpress.com/2009/01/29/publishing-options/" rel="nofollow">PUBLISHING OPTIONS</a></abbr></em> Hi Angie;

I could have easily written this post…probably added to it. Yes, I can relate, but we are the stronger ones in the end.

Jo-Anne

Jo-Anne Vandermeulen’s last blog post..PUBLISHING OPTIONS

]]> By: Kimberlee Ferrell http://www.angiescopywriting.com/forwriters/divorce-taught-copywriting.html#comment-207 Kimberlee Ferrell Sun, 01 Feb 2009 15:35:16 +0000 http://www.angiescopywriting.com/?p=256#comment-207 This is a great topic Angie! I'm still in the recovery portion of mine. Even though I am perfectly happy in my relationship now, just the sense of failure that divorce carries still weighs on me. Yet if I didn't make it happen, I never would have became a freelance writer! Expect a post about this in a few days, if I can get the words out. ~Kimberlee <abbr><em>Kimberlee Ferrell’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.freedomwriting.com/2009/01/26/writing-as-an-outsider/" rel="nofollow">Writing as an Outsider</a></abbr></em> This is a great topic Angie! I’m still in the recovery portion of mine. Even though I am perfectly happy in my relationship now, just the sense of failure that divorce carries still weighs on me. Yet if I didn’t make it happen, I never would have became a freelance writer!

Expect a post about this in a few days, if I can get the words out.

~Kimberlee

Kimberlee Ferrell’s last blog post..Writing as an Outsider

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